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We all love to be loved by others but to be loved by others we need to meet there expectations. These expectations are not big but pretty small and it accumulates as time passes. How do well you fit these expectations is all that matters. Some of the things they may expect from you are happiness, encouragement, motivation, and support. A person who is loved by all usually maintains a perfect balance of these. In this post we will see some of the do’s and don’ts.

“May there always be work for your hands to do, may your purse always hold a coin or two. May the sun always shine on your windowpane, may a rainbow be certain to follow each rain. May the hand of a friend always be near you, may God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you.” - Irish Blessing

Motivate :

Motivation is one of the most important aspects of human life. If you are man of your words, a perfectionist they will look up at you for motivation. To achieve this you must do what you say, do not be a loud mouth and claim to do everything under the sun. Be realistic, if you can’t do something accept it. There is no rule that a man should be perfect in everything.

Happiness:

A person who is happy is very attractive everyone loves to bond with them. Throw away your negative thoughts, try to be happy. There are times when your friends are sad and feeling low, if you can cheer them up they will simply love you. Always wear a smile, this way you are more approachable. Apart from being happy you should also spread happiness. Spread happiness by talking good and a have a good sense of humor.

Encourage:

Nothing feels better than an encouragement from a dear friend. Encouraging people will install trust into them. They will believe there is someone who is watching there back incase if something goes wrong. People love being around where they are encouraged.

Support:

If someone comes to you for help, try your best to help them out. If you are not in the condition do not shoo them away, help them by giving alternatives or if possible give them sources from where they can get any extra information. If you have absolutely no idea about the subject for which they are asking help just be frank and explain to them the reason why you can’t help. Also support them in there work, but don’t over do it. It is a good habit to say no once a while, because if you don’t people start taking you for granted and you start loosing your value.

Some do’s and don’ts

• Do help your friends.
• Do talk to them in person.
• Do give your friends suggestions
• Do encourage your friends.
• Be a source of motivation.
• Do choose your words before you speak.
• Do listen to people.
• Don’t talk cheaply
• Don’t ignore people.
• Don’t underestimate people.
• Don’t be rude.
• Don’t talk negative or ill about other people.

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